Stories of Little Known People of the Bible-Lot: The Man Who Compromised

Lot: The Man Who Compromised

Summary: Part 1 of 6 of the series, Who’s That? Stories of little known people of the Bible. Lot, the nephew of Abraham had a lot(!) of things going right for him in his life. But he ended up losing a lot(!) because of the compromises he made...

Series:  Stories of Little Known People of the Bible.

Scripture: Genesis 13:1-13:24 2 Peter 2:1-2:10 

Date: 08, May 2016

Scripture Reading

Take your Bibles and rise to your feet, turn with me now and Read at beginning of service: 2 Peter 2:1-10 (NIV)

1 But there were also false prophets among the people, just as there will be false teachers among you. They will secretly introduce destructive heresies, even denying the sovereign Lord who bought them--bringing swift destruction on themselves. 2 Many will follow their shameful ways and will bring the way of truth into disrepute. 3 In their greed these teachers will exploit you with stories they have made up. Their condemnation has long been hanging over them, and their destruction has not been sleeping. 4 For if God did not spare angels when they sinned, but sent them to hell, putting them into gloomy dungeons to be held for judgment; 5 if he did not spare the ancient world when he brought the flood on its ungodly people, but protected Noah, a preacher of righteousness, and seven others; 6 if he condemned the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah by burning them to ashes, and made them an example of what is going to happen to the ungodly; 7 and if he rescued Lot, a righteous man, who was distressed by the filthy lives of lawless men 8 (for that righteous man, living among them day after day, was tormented in his righteous soul by the lawless deeds he saw and heard)-- 9 if this is so, then the Lord knows how to rescue godly men from trials and to hold the unrighteous for the day of judgment, while continuing their punishment. 10 This is especially true of those who follow the corrupt desire of the sinful nature and despise authority. Bold and arrogant, these men are not afraid to slander celestial beings;

This is the word of the Lord. Thanks be to God. May the sweet Holy Spirit add His manifold blessings to our text this morning... in our hearing. Amen! You may be seated in God's Presence.

INTRODUCTION

For the next few weeks we’re going to be looking through the pages of the Bible and uncovering the lives of some little known people in the Bible. Their stories are the stories that aren't very often told. Often when their name is mentioned it is greeted with a, "Who’s That?" They may not be included in the list of well known Bible characters such as Adam and Eve, Noah, Moses, David, Solomon, Daniel, Matthew, Mark, Luke, John, Paul, or Peter but that doesn't mean that we can’t learn from their lives and their contact with God. In fact, in looking at their lives we often find some parallels between their strengths and weaknesses, their challenges and accomplishments, their fears and failures – and our own. It is good for us to examine these lives – for it will serve us well when in taking a glimpse at their lives we also can glance at our own.So without further ado, I’d like to introduce to you the man we will be looking at this morning. His name is Lot – and I guess he could be known as the man who compromised… We are first introduced to Lot in the latter part of Genesis 11 where we learn he is the grandson of a man named Terah. Terah, it turns out is the father of a man who probably is familiar to a lot of us – Abram (who would later be known as Abraham, the father of Israel). Terah had three sons: Abram, Nahor, and Haran. Lot is born to Haran and in the same passage we learn that Haran died fairly young.

It appears from this passage that Lot comes into the care of his uncle Abram and one of his first journeys recorded in the Bible is when Terah took Abram, Sarai (Abram’s wife) and Lot from where they lived (Ur of the Chaldeans) to go to Canaan. Only, they didn't make it quite that far and ended up staying in another place named Haran (the namesake of Lot’s father)

In Genesis 12 there is the famous "call of God" upon Abraham and we read how Abram is commanded by God to "…Leave your country, your people and your father’s household and go to the land I will show you." (Gen. 12:1) When Abram gets up to leave we find recorded in verse 4 that, "Lot went with him." It is interesting to note that the next time we find his name mentioned it is found in the same phrase,

Genesis 13:1 (NIV)

1 So Abram went up from Egypt to the Negev, with his wife and everything he had, and Lot went with him.

Lot, it seems, had a good relationship with his uncle and wasn't about to give that up.

It is in chapter 13 where the Bible starts to fill in a little more detail regarding the story of Lot’s life. Up to this point Abram and Lot appear inseparable but then we find that strife begins to arise between the servants of Lot and Abram. The strife was over the fact that each man’s herdsmen sought water and the best pasture for the animals of their master. This competition inevitably led to conflict between the herdsmen of Lot and Abram. The Bible says that both Abram and Lot had been blessed with many possessions, "…But the land could not support them while they stayed together." (Genesis 13:6 a).

Abram notices this strife and calls Lot to him in order to resolve the issue.

READ GENESIS 13:8-18 In English, Hindi, Telugu and Kannada

It appears as though Lot has got the better end of the deal but then as we continue into Chapter 14 we learn that Lot finds himself caught in the middle of an international conflict. Some kings begin warring in the area where Lot and his people are living and the Bible records that they are carried off with all his possessions as captives of war.

Abram soon becomes aware of this and rushes in to the rescue miraculously defeating Lot’s captors and freeing him, as well as freeing all the other captives and their possessions.

The Bible is silent about Lot for a while and then he is again mentioned in Genesis 19. In chapter 18 we learn about God communicating with Abraham his intention to destroy the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah because of their wickedness. Abraham, (knowing his nephew Lot lives there), pleads with God and convinces (!) God to spare the city if 10 righteous people are found.

READ GENESIS 19

This then is the story of the man named Lot. When I studied his story the first word that came to my mind to describe him was the word compromise. If you look in the dictionary you’ll find that this word is used to describe a method of reaching agreement in a dispute, by which each side surrenders something that it wants. In this way compromise is used in a positive sense. However the word compromise also is used to describe placing something in jeopardy or bringing into danger, or exposing to a loss of reputation. In this way compromise is used in a negative sense. For instance, when a thief breaks into someone’s home we say that their security has been compromised. In using this word to describe Lot this morning I am using it in the negative sense. In other words I think that Lot is a man that placed many things in jeopardy in his life. Even though he is described by Peter in 2

Peter 2:7-8 as righteous – there is also evidence that this righteous man made some bad decisions in his life that compromised many areas of his life. When we look at Lot’s story we see the process of a life that starts out so well but ends up so badly as a result of the gradual process of a series of poor decisions. It is the story of a man who compromised.

What led Lot to compromise?

We’re going to be looking this morning at just what it is that Lot compromised (or placed in jeopardy) but before we do that I think it is important to establish why or what led him to compromise these things in his life.

And the answer to that is very simple – it is seen in his choice or decision at the resolution to the strife between Abraham and Himself. As Lot gazed over the lush fertile plain of Jordan – he saw the incredible opportunity to improve his place in the world. To improve his life – his way of life. Lot is the perfect example of the human tendency to look out for number 1.

I know I’m not immune to this tendency! I remember growing up that whenever my brother and I would fight over something we were supposed to share – the fight always about who got the biggest, the best, or the most! For instance, a single chocolate bar would never be split exactly in half and it was always a given that either my brother or I would put up a fight about getting the "smaller" half even though the difference was insignificant. One day my mom caught to a neat idea that I know I will use with my kids. One of us could split the chocolate bar in half but the other person got first choice of which half to take! A simple solution to a childish problem. But isn't it childish? Yet, it seems that this characteristic doesn't disappear as we grow older. We just learn to be more civilized. It is still in our nature as humans to look out for number one.

Lot’s behavior in looking out for number one manifested itself in many ways.

Blinded Him to the dangers of Sodom

When it came to making decisions Lot went with what appealed most to his earthly appetites and was blind to the dangers of Sodom. In other words, Lot saw what was best for him in this world rather than what was worst for his spirit. When he looked out at the fertile valley of the Jordan plain, Lot saw only how he could potentially increase his possessions in this world instead of the spiritual dangers found in the cities of the plain.

It would be naïve to think that Lot was not aware of the spiritual depravity in the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah. Abraham and Lot had been in the area for a while and would have had news of the area. Yet in spite of this knowledge Lot still chose the way he did. In fact we find that Lot first pitched his tent near Sodom, and then eventually lived in the city. Maybe he thought he would be immune to the corruption found in the city. Maybe he thought he could influence it for good. Instead Lot compromised everything in his life because of his choice.

Lot’s behavior in looking out for number one also, Caused him to trust in his own ways rather than God’s ways.

It’s interesting to note that Lot didn't once consult the Lord about his choice. Even after seeing how God directed the life of Abraham Lot had his own plans and failed to consult God.

After being caught in an international conflict and being miraculously rescued by his uncle Abraham you would think Lot would have got the picture and said to himself – "maybe I made a bad choice in moving here". No, instead he sold his tents and bought a condo in the city.

When the angels came to the city of Sodom Lot knew who they were. But in spite of that knowledge he still tried to get out of the jam he found himself in when the mob came to the door demanding that he deliver his guests to be sexually molested. Instead of shutting the door in the mobs face and trusting that God would somehow work out a solution, Lot took things into his own hands and diplomatically called the crowd his "friends" and offered them his two daughters instead! What father in their right mind would do such a thing? Yet, "looking out for number one" meant trusting in his own ways rather than God’s ways.

Even when the angels miraculously delivered Lot from the crowd by making the blind and told Lot God’s plan of destruction for the city the scriptures record that he hesitated when it was time to go and the angels had to physically grab Lot, his wife, and two daughters to remove them from the city!

Then, while on route, Lot pleaded with the angels to let him go to the small city of Zoar rather than the mountain that God wanted him to go to. Lot trusted in his own ways rather than God’s ways because he was always looking out for #1.

So here we have the reason for the compromise in Lot’s life. It began with simply "looking out for number one". Now we can look at what was compromised in Lot’s life because of this.

What Lot compromised… Relationship with Abraham

One of the things you notice first about the story of Lot is his apparent closeness to his uncle Abram. From the beginning we learn how Lot "went" wherever his uncle went and his uncle’s willingness to have him along. But things seem to change when their possession increased.

The thing that stands out about the character of Abraham at this point in Lot’s life is his willingness to maintain his good relationship with his nephew.

Genesis 13:8-9 (NIV) 8 So Abram said to Lot, "Let’s not have any quarreling between you and me, or between your herdsmen and mine, for we are brothers. 9 Is not the whole land before you? Let’s part company. If you go to the left, I’ll go to the right; if you go to the right, I’ll go to the left."

Abram had every right to tell Lot where to go. He was the elder, and the one that God made the promise to. Abram risked everything by giving Lot the choice. Why? Because he was not willing to compromise his relationship with Lot. Clearly, Abraham was not looking out for number one!

Contrast this with Lot. He didn't even think twice. He was willing to compromise his relationship with his uncle in order to take advantage of the apparent bonanza.

The most unsettling thing that happens when we look out for number one is that we compromise our relationship with those who love us most!

Blessings of God

Something that I think Lot forgot in his choice was that the only reason he had the possession he had was because he had hung around with Abram and Abram was being blessed by God. In leaving Abram, Lot was walking away from God’s blessings! He was compromising or "placing in jeopardy" God’s blessing. As you read to the conclusion of Lot’s life you see the impact that decision had on his life.

Peter writes in 2 Peter 2:7-8(NIV);

7 and if he rescued Lot, a righteous man, who was distressed by the filthy lives of lawless men 8 (for that righteous man, living among them day after day, was tormented in his righteous soul by the lawless deeds he saw and heard)--

Why was Lot so tormented in the city of Sodom?

Because he had known what it meant to be in God’s blessing! It is so true that when those who have known the blessings of God compromise that for the passing pleasures of the world – those pleasures become a torment rather than a joy. 

NOTHING COMPARES WITH THE PRESENCE OF GOD NO MATTER HOW APPEALING!

His family

Probably one of the saddest things that happened as a result of Lot’s decision was the "placing in jeopardy" of his family! Notice what happened as a result of Lot’s compromise.

The very safety of his family was compromised in the midst of the international conflict.

His married daughter’s and son’s in laws refuse to leave with him when he warns of the impending destruction of Sodom (in fact they "laugh" at him"). They had become "accustomed" to the wickedness in the city.

Lot’s wife looks back at Sodom after being warned not to and is turned into a pillar of salt. She looked back with longing at what she was leaving behind and not believing that the city really was going to be destroyed.

Lot’s remaining daughters commit incest with him in a cave on the mountain of refuge at the end of Lot’s story. Having been exposed to the wickedness of the city of Sodom for most of their lives they saw nothing wrong with what they did.

His integrity

Lot also compromised his integrity as a follower of God. His own family laughed at him when he tried to warn them about Sodom.

The mob at Lot’s door mocked him when he tried to resolve things – by offering his own daughters instead! In "looking out for number one" Lot compromised who he was and what he stood for.

Invitation And The Final Challenge

So what can we learn from Lot’s story this morning? What is it about this man’s life that should serve as an example of what not to do? From Lot we learn of the incredible danger inherent in "looking out for number one".

The decisions reached by Abram and Lot are the same as those which confront every Christian. We must decide whether to trust in the sovereignty of God or in our own schemes and devices. We must determine whether to trust in the ‘uncertainty of riches’ or in the God Who "richly supplies us’ (I Timothy 6:17). We must decide whether to invest in the ‘passing pleasures of sin’ or the future ‘reward’ which is promised by God (Hebrews 11:25-26)

The world’s way of getting ahead is to look out for number one. That was Lot’s way, as well. God’s way to blessing is looking UP TO NUMBER ONE, and looking out for others.

Matthew 22:36-40 (NIV)

36 "Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?" 37 Jesus replied: "’Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ 38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 And the second is like it: ’Love your neighbor as yourself.’ 40 All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments."

Such a life can only be lived by faith. Such a life can only cause our faith in God to grow.

The beginning point for every man, woman, and child is to look to God for salvation. We cannot, we dare not, trust in our own shrewdness to get us entrance into God’s kingdom. Often what we perceive to be ‘paradise’ is soon to be destroyed by divine wrath. Faith recognizes our sinfulness and trusts in the work of Jesus Christ on the cross of Calvary for eternal security and blessing. Our own best efforts are doomed to destruction. Only what God promises and provides will endure.

As we saw with the life of Lot – even the "righteous" can make mistakes – but we can avoid compromising as Lot did by "denying our self" and embracing the life of Christ.

Although we still may experience the consequence of "bad" decisions in the past – God still extends his grace and mercy (salvation) to those who will receive it.